"My partner and I are no longer having sex."
I've heard this so many times in response to my posts, emails from strangers and friends alike; all asking me what can I do? It seems like we've stopped talking, as couples, as partners in life. Sex is bonding at a euphoric level, in order to reach it one has to communicate. I wrote last week about getting to know yourself, your joys and your pleasures. This week it's the importance of asking how to be the best pleaser you can be to the mate you choose. Ask them what they like, note when they moan, see how they twinkle and why. We are lucky to be able to connect with all of our senses in this life. So why not speak to find out how they like their touches? Listen to their words and the sounds of their passion. Personally, I love the scent a lover leaves on me, I've slept so sweetly in sheets that smell like someone I love. Touched my lip and blushed at the thought of their kiss. Shivered upon recalling their touch... All because I learned to ask and listen.
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